(有剧透)特别喜欢争吵的戏以及对儿子的心理变化的处理,因为提前知道结局,在争吵的戏我代入的完全是妻子,感受到对丈夫受害者心态的极度厌恶,甚至觉得妻子一针见血指出了丈夫逃避责任和软弱的事实,同时也感受到巨大的孤独是哪怕在亲密关系中只能自己拯救自己,没有个体能真正完全理解彼此。

但在儿子的证词中,又理解了导演Justine Triet说的妻子responsible for pushing him to commit suicide,在丈夫最后绝望的求救中,她依然无视了冷漠了,能指望一个想自杀的人多好呢?如果对生活有希望就不会自杀了。最终承受丈夫的死亡的痛苦的还有儿子

"Well, what can I say? It’s the same thing as in life, Who knows the real truth? To me, I think maybe Sandra could be not guilty of murder but responsible for pushing him to commit suicide. Maybe? It’s a question of 'What are we all responsible for in our lives?' The film is opening so many other doors. And in a way, I think, well, she lied two times in the movie. So maybe we can cast doubt on her and say, 'Hmm, is it possible she did do it?', but I don’t want to say that."

Alas what can we say? Intimate relationships suck.