EP14私心放在前面,真得覺得很不錯,能夠觸及到唐氏症候群這些群體,本身就很值得贊賞和推廣的劇。
沒有一味地超現實地展現人們的善意,而是将無知的人展現出來,沒有見過的這些病症的人展現出來;
記得國内《親愛的翻譯官》中一位母親說的話,“真正的堅持不是在最短的時間做出決定,而是在最長的時間去行動”。或許沒有人能始終毫無抱怨地照顧這些病患親人,但隻願在經曆那種壓力和無助之後,不要輕易抛棄他們;

有多深的思念才會讓唐氏綜合征的孩子能夠畫出那麼揪人心的畫作呢?







EP01作為第一單元,可以說為此劇開了個好頭,漢修斷腳指甲也要為了工作點頭哈腰,像極了為生活疲憊奔波的我們,很多苦果并不适合發發朋友圈就能好過一點,我們需要有一些情感支撐,人生動力才能咽的下去這些生活的苦果;
漢修為了女兒打高爾夫,像極了身邊親朋好友,為了女兒攻讀藝術而被迫做苦力工作;雖然覺得他們都很難,但是這也是他們的選擇!




EP01寥寥數筆勾勒出每個人的心酸生活,不管因何原因我們都在掙紮活下去,隻因生活還有一點美好值得我們如此。
EP01在我們默默吞下生活的苦難的時候,正如《絕望的主婦》裡蘇珊所說“人到中年,回憶比較重要了”,生活裡有點光和回憶與溫暖就能照亮着我們,雖然大緻可以預測到會為了初戀奉獻自己的戲份,依然覺得這份純真和感動很值得向往;
很多時候年少時的一點無意或有意的善良舉動可能能夠感動别人一生;











EP02既然我是你生命中唯一能支撐下來的光,我怎能随意地将其熄滅呢?
EP02李秉憲真的是演了好多這種憤世嫉俗的角色,暴躁本人了,以抗争對待生活也不失為一種生活方式!













EP02或許有時候反而越是是深愛,越是面對單純無防備的人,我們總是更不願意去破壞這段感情,去傷害這個人!
EP02互相成就的回憶,越是如此,越不忍破壞,果真都是在認真演戲,越來越喜歡看中年人的戲,是我老了嗎๏[-ิ_•ิ]๏
EP03我們不能強迫自己将自己的希冀與夢想投射給任何人,即使他們是我們的孩子,因為太過勉強,畢竟我們光完成自己的課題就很累了!
EP03每一句台詞都那麼恰到好處,毫無矯情之感,演員表演也很讓人信服這就是我們的生活,我們會有的情緒……











































EP03最喜歡的高光台詞,人心會變,所以永遠接受變化中的自己和他人,不以刻闆和固有印象來看待别人!



















































EP05很多時候我們不止要學會接受自己的不足,自己的偶爾小情緒,也要接受我們身邊愛的人的小情緒,他們對事情的接受能力,給自己時間,也給别人時間,學會體諒自己,體諒他人!

EP04-05當喜歡和愛出現在腦袋和心中時,心總是會更勝一籌,畢竟心選擇了我們所愛的人,心動的人,就是選上了,就算痛苦,也得經曆那份喜歡慢慢消失的階段。














EP06-07父母與孩子的關系多麼複雜,多麼深愛,又會有多麼難受,但我們應該明白孩子終歸有他們自己的明天,終歸有他們自己的思想,有屬于他們自己且隻能由他們自己承擔和感受的痛苦和喜悅;隻有走出舊的思想窠臼,我們才能都幸福一點,都能想清楚自己,人生的愛和希望不能全給孩子,自然重擔也不要。因為我們承受自己一個人的生命的重擔和使命都很力有不逮!


EP07父親的自責,自己對自己的憤怒,其實隻是眼前的希望毀了,為人父母我們總是先是自己,才是父母,所以我們有自己的看待問題的角度,受時代的局限,總想着讓孩子走在約定俗成的路上,自己就自由了,可是孩子有她們自己的喜怒哀樂,有自己的愛恨選擇



EP08人生中除了愛人,我們還需要有父母,朋友,少了哪一部分 我們的心都會有所空蕩蕩;因為從我們生下來,我們就需要社會上的各種角色來支撐我們!










































EP06-EP10東昔和抑郁離婚媽媽的故事:雖然阿德勒心理學派認為我們不應該被過去的家庭和環境定義自己,可是如果沒有得到有效的指導和智慧與勇氣,對于一般人都難做到,更何況抑郁患者;
EP06抑郁患者的比較寫實的劇情了;總是沉浸在負面的評價,我們要明白别人的評價,不僅是孩子的評價,都隻代表那一刻他們的觀點;隻要自己在慢慢變好,不是專業人士的意見,随便聽聽罷了,何必拿别人的随口之言折磨自己。
EP06人生或許需要反思,但不能頻頻回頭,誰還能有個百分百的開局和過程與結局呢?
EP06抑郁患者的比較寫實的劇情了;總是沉浸在負面的評價,我們要明白别人的評價,不僅是孩子的評價,都隻代表那一刻他們的觀點;隻要自己在慢慢變好,不是專業人士的意見,随便聽聽罷了,何必拿别人的随口之言折磨自己。
EP06人生或許需要反思,但不能頻頻回頭,誰還能有個百分百的開局和過程與結局呢?
EP10東昔安慰的一番話着實話糙理不糙,不管是抑郁的我們還是正常人,不要總盯着眼前的失去,這樣的話,我們隻會又把自己拖入抑郁的深淵,眼光放長遠點,如果隻是讓自己沉浸在悲傷的情緒中,又怎麼能再出發,再次讓自己獲得幸福呢?人總會有疲憊,可是别讓自己深陷那種情緒,難過完了,擦幹眼淚再出發!!
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EP11每朵玫瑰????都有刺,可如果我們隻想要玫瑰的美麗,而不想去小心翼翼接納對方的一些可能不那麼舒服的特質,我們怎能談得上是真的愛他們呢?
愛情其實不分年齡,或許隻是年紀大一點,會理智一點,但心動卻不會丢掉的!
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EP11濟州島一家親,這種俗人社會的無距離感有時候也挺療愈人的
EP11單親媽媽終于想通了,不是沒了孩子就活不下去,将孩子作為自己的人生稻草,而應該做孩子的依靠,治愈自己才能更好地愛孩子,前夫藝術化地說出“到時候你就直接領走吧!”也是非常有風度的男生了!即使離婚了,也隻能證明他沒辦法幫助媽媽療愈,而不能否定他是個好爸爸和好男生!
EP12-13作為一部單元劇,能夠涵蓋各種主題,着實是非常不錯了;恩熙和美蘭之間大概存在着很普遍的老友走散的關系,其實很多時候我們都不能把兩個人之間的嫌隙說開,仿佛如果說開,就是對這段神聖友誼的亵渎和玷污,但我們不明白的是我們生而為人,吃五谷雜糧,和形形色色的人相處是會有一些思想暗黑面的,可如果我們在老友面前這樣隐藏,用這種思維,隻會無形中給自己壓力,總有一天也會讓老友覺得自己真的如一個“默默無聞的好友”所斷定的那般!
EP13大概是因為貧窮和别人的言語造就的低自卑吧
EP13感覺自己受委屈的話,是不是自己不敢表達出來,是不是自己沒有勇氣說呢,自以為地默默承受給了雙方難堪的結局
EP14真正的朋友不應該是埋藏怨氣,而是拿到陽光下曬幹它