充满隐喻的对话，充满暗含的殖民地。笑声，哭声，争吵和歌声都令人动容,这是女人的对话，女权主义者的对话。女人在这暴力痛苦父权社会要以怎样的思想和姿态生活，又该何去何从，是女人们永不停止思考的问题。but we not only have to know what to destory, we also have to know why we destory and what we want to build. All we women need is a room, a room we can talk to each other and be taken a minute. what comes out ist not just ideas, but the answers we be longing for, the safety we can feel, and the bond rooted in us. and Ben is the only right man to be in that barn,to remind us there maybe are someone there for you 。可是无法否认的是，女人永远在逃离，逃离束缚我们的一切。我们离开不是因为害怕和躲避，我们离开是因为我们需要学会如何去爱，去生活，去看见真实的我们和我们的信仰。国家，家庭，婚姻，孩子和爱，我们其实并不了解它们，我们只有女性的经验和直觉，我们知道总有自由在远方。