“When I went into the box I was filled with regret, and then one day, I walked into a world and I found a family that had been created through a choice that I was too scared to make. I was burning with envy. At first I thought it was all about you, Daniela, and while some of it was, I realized what I really wanted — what I tried to steal — were the choices that you made, Jason. Mostly, the choice to allow space in your life for someone else’s needs and dreams. I think there’s a part of us — me — that’s been afraid to risk love. My whole life I’ve let that fear control me, but somehow you broke free of it and gifted yourself a full, messy, beautiful life. ”