像是聽了100分鐘的訪談節目，一個人要坦然地面對自己已經很不容易了，何況要坦然地告訴别人自己是什麼樣的人，畢竟，沒有人可以真的和你感同身受，幫你排解你的孤獨和痛苦。

很喜歡他們對婚姻和自我的剖析：

“I just think it's hard to cast that role, you know, to fill it when you know it is gonna be like 30 to 40 years. To find someone who , whatever mental landscape you're in, they're gonna be in it too. You have to find someone who fit any landscape you can imagine. I don't know.”

“When I want to be alone, like, to write, I really want to be alone. I think if you dedicate yourself to anything, one facet of that is that it makes you very very self-conscious. And you end up using people…wanting them around when you want them around…and then sending them away.”