充滿隐喻的對話,充滿暗含的殖民地。笑聲,哭聲,争吵和歌聲都令人動容,這是女人的對話,女權主義者的對話。女人在這暴力痛苦父權社會要以怎樣的思想和姿态生活,又該何去何從,是女人們永不停止思考的問題。but we not only have to know what to destory, we also have to know why we destory and what we want to build. All we women need is a room, a room we can talk to each other and be taken a minute. what comes out ist not just ideas, but the answers we be longing for, the safety we can feel, and the bond rooted in us. and Ben is the only right man to be in that barn,to remind us there maybe are someone there for you 。可是無法否認的是,女人永遠在逃離,逃離束縛我們的一切。我們離開不是因為害怕和躲避,我們離開是因為我們需要學會如何去愛,去生活,去看見真實的我們和我們的信仰。國家,家庭,婚姻,孩子和愛,我們其實并不了解它們,我們隻有女性的經驗和直覺,我們知道總有自由在遠方。